Monday, July 31, 2017

The Big 8!

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So dapper. In their matching bowties. What happened to my tiny tag-along buddies with blonde curls? In what minute did they become these handsome, long-legged fellas ready to take on the world?

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It's funny, ya know. Not often now do they climb tandem onto the couch next to me to snuggle. Sometimes they do, when I read aloud. And sometimes Gordy will give me the best out-of-the-blue hug. But when I see them watching cartoons together, or giggling at Calvin & Hobbes, I'm the one who likes to sidle in between them, put my arms behind their necks and pull them close.

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Little toads. They can get along so famously one moment. And so infamously another.

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One friend said to me when she saw these photos, "Seems like yesterday they were finagling a way out of their crib tents." Ha! Oh yes, those were days. Followed by climbing out their bedroom window onto the roof, hauling down neighborhood streets on their sküts, digging up the next door flower pots, and painting our white stucco wall with muddy handprints.

They've already filled our family annals with memorable tales.

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Gordon Robert.

He's one of my best helpers. He never forgets to kiss me goodbye or goodnight. He loves soccer, Messi, steak, lemon chicken, kit kats, chocolate ice cream, and chemistry. He wants to be a scientist when he grows up. Or a professional soccer player. Or "if that doesn't work out, an accountant. Like his Dad." 😂

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Gordon, you are sensitive to spiritual things, and to my surprise, you have a gift of being aware when heavenly beings might be with you. When you were baptized a few weeks ago, you leaned over to me during the end of the service and said, "I can tell Grandma is here." And when you said it, I knew she was too. You make a fuss sometimes about doing things I ask, but in the end, you notice that it feels better to make the right choice, do good things, mend fences, apologize, show love. And I appreciate that so much. You are pretty darn funny, making me laugh with your awesome dance moves and impersonations. And your goodnight kisses melt me every time.

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I love you Gord.

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Spencer James.

He has been trying so hard lately to listen to me and do what I ask. He makes new friends wherever he goes, notices the underdog and looks out for them. And he is poppa-bear-protective of his twin brother, Gordon. Immediately concerned if Gordon is lost, left out, or doesn't get an equal share. He loves elephants, baseball, the Red Sox, classic rock (His favorite band is Boston), spaghetti and meatballs, and Twix. And when he grows up, he wants to be a professional baseball player. Wait for it... "But if that doesn't work out, an accountant. Like his Dad." 

Doug must be selling the accounting gig pretty hard! Our friend, who is also a tax accountant said to Spencer, "One word for you Spence. Dentistry." 

And come February, I gotta agree.

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Spence, I love your heart. Just the other day you were helping me water the flowers out front and you got angry about something. You huffed inside, only to return about five minutes later, looking contrite and apologetic. You said you were sorry you got angry and completely changed your attitude. Said you were ready to help me finish watering the garden. I love seeing you figure these things out, with a little prompting from the heavens. You are tender, and true. You are full of sunshine and energy. And you give life everything you've got.

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I love you Spence.

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The wonderful and selfless Michelle Lehnardt took these photos of the boys. Ever talented and a dear, dear friend to me, I am so grateful she was able to capture our boys, just as they are right now. At the big 8.

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She introduced us to Sweetaly Gelato on 15th and 15th in Salt Lake, on the way home from our photo shoot. Must stop if you are in town. They have a chocolate fountain and the best gelato in the state!


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So, along with turning 8 years old in the Mormon culture or religion, comes the opportunity for children to be baptized and confirmed members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. They are eligible at the age of 8 for baptism. So this is something we try to prepare our children for, and it is always a beautiful ordinance, performed in the same method as Jesus' baptism was performed when he was baptized by immersion in the river Jordan by John the Baptist.

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Spencer and Gordon were baptized in this beautiful font with stained glass windows, on July 8th, by their Dad. Their Grandfathers acted as witnesses, and the viewing area was packed with children straining over the font, friends, neighbors, congregation members, and family.

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It is a happy day, in which all the special people in your life come to support you, and share in the joy of taking this first step on a path towards, what we believe, is returning to live with a loving Heavenly Father in Heaven.

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(Gordon.)

I have a new assignment in our church, and it is to help with the baptisms of all the children in our stake each month (a stake is a grouping of congregations in a geographical area). Right before the baptisms we show this video.





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(Spencer.)

And then this video. Of children talking about the video above. I love their interpretations.




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Following the baptism, the boys were confirmed members of the church and given the gift of the Holy Ghost by their grandfathers. Because each of our boys have the same middle name as their grandfathers, we thought it would be special if my Dad, Robert Keddington, confirmed Gordon Robert. And Doug's Dad, James Arveseth, confirmed Spencer James.

I can't believe I forgot to get photos of the boys with their grandfathers! I will do that next time they're all in suits. Ugh, what a shame!

Each blessing was so unique to each boy, so perfect, so beautifully spoken, with wisdom, spirit, and great love.

My Dad mentioned specifically that there were loved ones on the other side, like Gordon's Grandma, who were watching and so pleased with all that had happened on this day. I felt that Doug's brother, Steven, was also there. Aware, and wanting to be close to his brothers and parents.

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I love this framed quote my friend Lisa gave me after my Mom passed. She lost her husband years ago, as a young mom. And I know she counts us on this truth, daily. That God is not the only one cheering her on from heaven.

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I wore this beautiful locket and charm my friends gave me. Thank you to all of you who contributed. I love it so very much.

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After the service, we went back to our house for lunch. It was just after the 4th, so we had fun decorating with red, white, and blue, using flag plates and napkins, and barbecuing in the backyard.

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My cousin Mary brought her twins! She is amazing to watch. Much more laid back than I was during the early twin days.

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My Aunt Leslie, Deb, Sarah. Always lots of willing hands to hold babies!

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Will.

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Cousins.

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Sweet baby Jack and my sister, Sarah.

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I cannot get over those crystal blue eyes.

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And those dimples!

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The Schrofs. That's what we call our Shroepfers. Dearest friends over so many years. 

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My sister Rachel, and her Emma, with cousin Ada.

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The Arveseth crew.

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Becca, my Dad, and my uncle Rog.


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The Bailey boys.

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Our neighbors, John and Betsy (Betsy teaches the girls piano), and Paul (whose kids and wife I didn't get in the photo!)

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Lance and Neil, ganging up on Bec.

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Doug's parents, Jim and Renae.

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Our next door neighbors and dear friends from the old house, Jay and Marilyn.

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Christian. The only member of Kara's family I managed to get in a photo!

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Cousin Ryan and his new wife, Jessica.

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And beautiful Jane, the kids' tennis coach, who couldn't make the service because she was teaching class, but came over afterwards to eat with the kids and dole out hugs. She is honestly one of the greatest humans I know. So kind, so encouraging. A complete builder. I don't think my kids would get up at 7AM to hit the court with very many people. But they will do it for Jane!

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And that's a wrap. The big 8. In a big, long post. But even this isn't long enough to hold all the love we've felt lately from friends, family, and heaven. 

To the moon and back boys. I love you!


Thursday, July 13, 2017

Into the West


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As I saw the full moon rise last week, I tilted back my head and sighed into the night sky. Two full moons have come and gone since I cried in the moonlight that evening my Mom said her last, "I love you."

Weeks have passed and I have had no time, no energy, to write about this gorgeous day in which we laid her body into the earth. 

To grieve in this modern world is not easy. We don't dress in black, we wear no black arm band. We carry with us no symbol that says we are walking through sorrow. Our break-neck pace leaves no room for our break-heart needs. It shoves us forward, onto the next thing, the next event, the next responsibility, with no thought that maybe, we can't. Maybe we can't do what we did in our unbroken state. 

But we tell ourselves we have no choice. We put on our "I'm alright" face and stuff our tears deep.

School let out the day after the funeral and I have not stopped. I have not been able to really reflect on all that happened, to grieve, or even recover. All my thank you notes sit unwritten. Emails go unanswered. And I just keep tending to the immediate. 

Death is traumatic. I see that now, as scenes from my Mom's death play out in my dreams. There are feelings and places I will need to work through. I am exhausted every day and wish I could find a quiet mountain or beach somewhere to just be. To think, cry, remember, process, and sleep. 

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But if I want to grieve, I must give myself that time. No one else will hand it to me. And the challenge is that I'm no sovereign. I am a mother, landlocked by five dependent children, who are my home. They need me. And when I stop to consider it, I need them. They are good for my heart. Even if summer throws us thick into each other. And most days I can't catch my breath. Maybe in September I will regroup, reflect, and recover.

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May 25th was a beautiful day. The temperature was perfect, the sunlight soft, and each person who came added so much to what we saw and felt. 

If you were there at any of the services or viewings, may I humbly say, thank you

You carried us, you lightened our hearts, you held out your arms to us. And you truly mourned with us. I have never experienced such powerful comfort and compassion through others.

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The viewings were crowded with dear friends and family. And the funeral services were healing. 

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My Dad asked Lauren to play at the funeral. When she came to play for my Mom, she introduced us to a new song which we all loved, but my Dad loved it best.  

It was Into the West, by Annie Lennox. 

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Lauren played with great feeling and tenderness. I sat next to my Dad and held his hand. We wept through the entire song. The words were included in the program so everyone could read along. 

Below is a recording of Lauren playing Into the West. I wanted you to hear the melody. 

Read the words as you listen. Every phrase is so rending but peaceful. It describes perfectly our experience of letting Mom go. Watching the ships come for her, claim her, and gently guide her away from our shore.



Lay down
Your sweet and weary head
The night is falling
You have come to journey's end
Sleep now
And dream of the ones who came before
They are calling
From across the distant shore
Why do you weep?
What are these tears upon your face?
Soon you will see
All of your fears will pass away
Safe in my arms
You're only sleeping
What can you see
On the horizon?
Why do the white gulls call?
Across the sea
A pale moon rises
The ships have come to carry you home
And all will turn
To silver glass
A light on the water
All Souls pass
Hope fades
Into the world of night
Through shadows falling
Out of memory and time
Don't say
We have come now to the end
White shores are calling
You and I will meet again
And you'll be here in my arms
Just sleeping
And all will turn
To silver glass
A light on the water
Grey ships pass
Into the West

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My cousin, Suzie, sang my Mom's favorite song, You'll Never Walk Alone. She flew from Arizona to be there and she sang it so beautifully. Thank you Suzie. 💕

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The grandkids sang one of my Mom's favorite children's song, In the Leafy Treetops. We wrote a third verse for Mom, which we also included on the program.

1. In the leafy treetops, the birds sing good morning. 
They're first to see the sun, they must tell everyone.
In the leafy treetops, the birds sing good morning.

2. In my pretty garden, the flowers are nodding.
How do you do, they say, how do you do today?
In my pretty garden, the flowers are nodding.

3. In our happy family, we're thankful for Grandma.
She's first to see The Son, we must tell everyone.
Every happy family can last forever.

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Mixed in between the musical numbers were our remarks. My Dad asked each of his children to speak. Worried we would be redundant, we each decided to choose just one of Mom's attributes to talk about. 

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Rachel talked about my Mom's service and obedient heart. Sarah talked about her garden and love of nature, birds, and the outdoors. Becca talked about her record-keeping. How she kept a wonderful history of our family, as well as family history for her parents and ancestors. Deb talked about her sense of humor. Dave talked about her work ethic and how she taught us to work hard. And I spoke about her faith.
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I wish I could include all of the remarks here. But it would be lengthy. So I will just share with you, what I said about her faith.


Over 22 years ago when she was first diagnosed with a brain tumor, I was 20, Rachel was only 10. I was in Israel, Dave was in Brazil on his mission, and Deb became surrogate mother to our younger sisters. I remember Mom’s voice on the phone in my room at the Jerusalem Center. “I am going to be alright,” she said. And I believed her. I did as she told me. I stayed in Israel and turned to my Savior for comfort and understanding. 

Deb told me later that initially Mom was afraid. After her first surgery, she and my Dad drove up Millcreek canyon. They found a place to park the car and Mom leaned into my Dad and just wept. She was fearful. She had no idea how things would work out. Dad held her and he prayed. Afterwards she relaxed and began to feel a sense of peace about everything. She said to my Dad, “Whatever happens will be OK.” From that point on she trusted completely in Heavenly Father, that he would do what was right for her and her family. That belief sustained her to the very end. Even a few days before her passing My Dad asked her, “Are you afraid?” She said, “No.” 

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Mom loved the story of Jairus’ daughter being raised from the dead. Deb printed her favorite verse from that story on the wall above the kitchen sink. It’s still there and it says, “Fear not; Believe only.”

After her first two surgeries, the tumor was miraculously removed. We cherished the many extra years we had with our Mom. She taught us then that faith could work miracles. But after the tumor returned and we gradually watched her lose function, we learned from her that true faith is more than expecting a miracle. It is submission. It is not turning your back on God when you have to walk a road you would not choose for yourself. It is trusting Him when your prayers or desires seem to go unheard. She did this. She submitted herself. With grace, humility, and with unfaltering love for her Savior.

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During her miracle years, as we call them, she felt the need to do something important. But she wasn’t sure what. She never served that mission with my Dad. But she did make us something we will always treasure. It’s a book of the stories of Jesus. She spent her time writing down each of the stories of Jesus in her own words. With pictures, scripture, and her testimony. All of her posterity can have no doubt where she got her strength. And in whom she trusted.

These last two years, even in the middle of heartbreaking decline, she showed us again, what it means to have faith. She never complained when she was trying to learn how to walk again; she worked so hard. She never complained when we had to lift her paralytic arm for her, when we had to heave her on and off the toilet, when we had to feed her, roll her, change her diaper, brush her teeth. Not once did she complain. Mostly, she laughed with us and said thank you. 

And I have to say for just a moment, that no one will ever know, except Mom and God himself, the scope of care, the tenderness, and the patient love, with which our Dad served and cared for our Mom. He too never complained, but was full of jokes and funny comments, all of which made her laugh. Like, when we had to change her briefs, and he'd say, “let’s roll you over for a brief moment,” or “time to frush and bloss your teeth” or after coming out of the bathroom with her, “well, it all came out in the end!”

And when I would say, “Mom, it’s time to pluck your nose hairs, and your chin hairs,” I’d get going with the tweezers and have to push her face into awkward positions and we’d start laughing so hard we’d be crying. Crying for the laughter. Or maybe crying because plucking nose hairs hurts so much! She took it all like a champ.

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On Tuesday evening we gathered as siblings to spend some time with Mom and thank her for all she had done for us. Her eyes were closed and she didn’t speak, but we knew she could hear us. 
After we each took a turn talking to her, I held her hand and said, “Mom, when someone comes to get you - whoever that is - when it is your time to go, we don’t want you to hesitate or worry about Dad, or us, we want you to go. You have endured all you need to endure. When they reach out their hand to you, take it and go with them.”

She didn’t smile, she didn’t nod, but she faintly said four words. “Okay. I. Will. Go.”

These are some of the last words we heard her speak. It took faith for her to say that. It took believing that some special angel would come to take her hand. That there would be a place of joy for her beyond that bed in the family room. And that the pain of separation we would feel would not last forever. 

The hole carved out in each of our hearts as she took her last breath will not go away anytime soon. But it will be a holding place, that will fill with joy when we are reunited with her. 

Mom passed her faith on to us. And just like her, we hold on to Christ and His promises. These words from Isaiah capture well what we believe, and what she now knows.

Arise, shine, for thy light is come, and the glory of the Lord is risen upon thee… the Lord shall arise upon thee, and his glory shall be seen upon thee… I will make thee an eternal excellency, a joy of many generations… Thy sun shall no more go down; neither shall thy moon withdraw itself: for the Lord shall be thine everlasting light, and the days of thy mourning shall be ended.” (Isaiah 60) 

How I love you Mom.

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After arriving at the cemetery, my Mom's brother Berkley dedicated the grave. It was a beautiful prayer. He made mention that it would be a place of peace. That the birds would always sing there. That we could go there and remember, and feel Ronda. He blessed this spot to protect her body until the resurrection when she will walk into my Dad's arms once more.

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This was the first time I had seen all her siblings together, without her.

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The pallbearers were asked to lay their boutonnieres on the casket. Here is Spencer placing his white carnation atop our spray of garden flowers.

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A sweet childhood friend of mine, Kristi, brought me this gorgeous lei. She knew someone who could ship it from Hawaii, rush order, so it would be fresh and on time. It is a funeral lei. Because plumeria blossoms come from the ground, and before the casket is interred, you place them on the casket to return to the ground. It smelled of heaven and I wore it when I spoke. Such beautiful symbolism.

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This was extremely tender for me.

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Thank you Kristi.

Isn't the casket beautiful? Its mahogany wood caught the light with such radiance that day. The same radiance that seemed to grace my Mother when she was alive.
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And then my Dad stood to speak. His heart so broken. Crushed in a way I cannot understand. And he smiled. Just like you see below. He spoke only a few words. He told everyone how much he loved them. He said thank you. Then asked that everyone take a flower from the arrangements to keep at home and remind them of his sweetheart, Ronda.

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That smile says so much. It never goes away for long. It is an underline of happiness on which his world turns. Somehow, he has figured out how to praise God in his suffering. Look at the love in his eyes. Love for everyone holding him up. Love for the sunshine he claims so easily. And love for the God he knows will bring his wife to him again. I have always adored my Dad. But the last couple years I have found an admiration and love for him for which I cannot find adequate words. 

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There were so many flowers. So many tributes. My Mom would have been overwhelmed by this outpouring of blossoms.

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Deb, Will, and Lizzie.

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Even little Jack made time to smell (or maybe eat?) the daisies.

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The grandkids chose their flowers.

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Little Emma picked a rose. She brought my Mom so much joy those last few weeks.

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My Doug, whom I can't even think of losing.

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Our Keddington family.

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Dave, Shirlee, Maya and Ethen.

It was so good to finally have Dave with us.

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Rachel. She gave so much to Mom. So very much.

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Our Wray family.



Our Keddington and Kimball family.

A perfect place to lay our sweet Mom down. 

The day she died as we looked at her body, I felt a new kind of reverence for bodies, especially hers. I no longer saw them as something that becomes lifeless and returns to the dust. Our bodies are truly incredible. Deb mentioned it first. She said, "Look at this body. It carried and birthed six children. Those hands made bread for us every week as we grew up. They dug in the dirt, moved pipe, sewed so many dresses for us." 

Over the next few days we cherished her body. It was an honor to go with my Dad and my sisters to dress Mom before the viewing. She looked so pretty. Deb touched up her hair and makeup. And when they eventually closed the casket prior to the service, Liza tucked a little note into the casket only she and Grandma knew about, Rachel tied a white veil under Mom's chin then covered her face, I held onto my Dad's arm, and we sobbed. Even separating from her body was difficult. 

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Everyone hugged and spoke quietly in this sacred spot below Mom's mountain. Then slowly, they walked away and climbed into their cars. But I lingered. And as I watched them leave, a phrase came into my mind.

"Everything is as it should be." And I knew that revelation to be true. It didn't lessen the ache or the longing for my Mom, but it did bring peace. 

We had so many years with her that were a gift. She knew it. And we knew it. God had extended her life. He let us have her as long as He possibly could. Until it was her time to go. And when it was, she did not fight it or resist. She did just as she said she would. She left.

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It seems no coincidence that my Mom is buried right next to Kara's grandfather, Duff Hanks. Marion D. Hanks. Sweet Grandpa Hanks, as I called him. He married me and Doug in the Salt Lake Temple. I have written about him before. 

Kara knows loss. And she knows that God is in it. I am so grateful she could walk this journey with me.

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I love these words from a song, written by my friend Elizabeth, who lost her Dad not too long ago.

"When someone goes, they stay somehow."

I do feel Mom's presence. I go to her house and she is there. I work in her garden and she is in the dirt, the air, in her flowers and plants. I see her everywhere. And I know, she comes to us often. I know she is with us. And I know that Into the West simply means she has shifted dimensions. Just because I do not see her, does not mean she is not there.

I have heard you whispering Mom. I have felt you. I love you.



Graveside photos taken by Liz Draper 💗
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