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A disco ball hanging outdoors with colorful string lights in the background.
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Get Down Tonight!

August 30, 2013 8 Comments


Doug and I were in charge of my family’s reunion this year. A fiesta that typically consists of three days in Salt Lake City or some nearby get-away destination. This summer we made base-camp at my parents’ house and ventured into surrounding areas for fun-filled action.Here’s our crew, minus my brother Dave, who couldn’t make it, and most of the out-laws. I mean in-laws. Who were snapping photos. Next year I need to remember my tripod.

Large family group with adults and children in tie-dye shirts outdoors.

Let me say right up front, it would have been a sorry shin-dig without Doug’s brilliant planning. For some reason, my brain was more than fried by summer and I was plumb out of good ideas. But Doug came to the rescue. Almost everything we did was his brainchild. And we had a blast!
Two young boys holding hands while walking outside.

Day 1 we hiked to Timpanogos Cave. A series of three caves linked with tunnels, trail accessible from American Fork Canyon. Gordon and his cousin Ethen held hands most of the way.

A winding mountain road through a lush green valley.

It was a fairly steep climb. This is the eastern view, part way up, looking down onto the parking lot.

A girl sitting on a rock with a mountainous background.

And this is the western view, with Eliza happily perched on the edge of the trail.

Man carrying child on shoulders hiking with woman on a trail.

Here comes Becca and family.

A group of children and adults walking on a rocky path outdoors.

We were a busy stream of legs trundling up the mountain. You can see the grade of the trail in this photo. Adults played zone defense (and an occasional man to man) to keep small feet away from steep drop-offs. The kids did surprisingly well.

Three women standing on a rocky trail in casual summer clothes.

Meine schwestern. I heart these girlies.

An elderly man surrounded by eight smiling children outdoors.

We gave my parents a head start. (They were worried they might be the last ones to the top.) But since the rest of us were rolling on kid-time, they beat us with a significant lead. It was fun for the kids to find them waiting for us.

Once everyone arrived, our tour guide took us in. To the cave. (Insert villainous laugh for effect.)

A smiling woman and child inside a dimly lit cave with stalactites.

Ali and Grandma
I hadn’t been in this cave since I was a little girl. It was phenomenal, beautiful. Its formations gnarly, stunning. And boy, was it dark inside! At one point the guide turned off all the interior lights. When I couldn’t see my hand in front of my face I thought, I would go insane in darkness like this! It was so disorienting, paralyzing. Nowhere to look, nothing to focus on, no way to move safely. A spiritual lesson there, to be sure.
Illuminated stalactites and stalagmites inside a cave.

Do you remember your cave lingo? Stalactites hang tight to the ceiling. Stalagmites grow up from the bottom of the cave.

Smiling boy in an orange jacket exploring a narrow cave passage.

Gordy
Large stalactite formation in a dimly lit cave.

This gigantic stalactite is known as the Heart of Timpanogos. Our guide told us the legend. About an Indian princess, Utahna, who fell in love with an Indian Warrior, Red Eagle. Red Eagle was ambushed by other jealous warriors and knocked off the mountain, where he fell to his death. Utahna was so distraught by this news, she flung herself from the mountain. Sounds like Romeo and Juliet, no?

The god of the mountain, Timpanogos, then took mercy on the two lovers, carried their bleeding hearts into the cave and joined them together to form one great heart. The heart of Timpanogos.

Close-up of stalactites hanging from a cave ceiling.

Helectites. That’s what they call this stuff. My kids thought they looked like curly fries from Arby’s.

Children drawing colorful chalk art on a sunny sidewalk.

That afternoon we set up Exploration Stations for the kids in my parents’ backyard.

Station 1: Chalk Art. Everyone decorated their own square to create our dance floor for the evening. A dance floor with original art!

Two children playing outside on a sunny day, holding small objects.

Station 2: Pioneer Yo-Yos.

Woman smiling, holding a small object indoors.

Or necklaces, if you prefer.

Children playing with colorful sensory water beads outdoors on grass.

Station 3: Water Beads. Have you played with these cool, slippery gems?

Hands playing with colorful water beads in a bowl.

They are irresistable! We couldn’t keep our hands out of them! Buy them at any craft store. They come in small packets with beads the size of a pinhead. Just add water and they grow to the size of a small marble. Take them out of water and they shrink right back. Loads of fun!

Man and boy conducting a science experiment outdoors with a water rocket.

Station 4: Water Bottle Rocket. Courtesy of my brother Dave – the engineer – who couldn’t make the reunion, but built the rocket a week earlier when he was in town. Lance skillfully manned this station.

Young boy crouching on grass between adults' legs outdoors.

Just pump the half-filled water bottle full of air to pressurize the rocket. (Michael couldn’t push the pump with his own foot, so he pushed Lance’s.)

Two children playing and running on a grassy lawn in a park.

Then pull the string and watch her fly! 3-4 stories high! The little boys LOVED this.

Children painting and decorating cardboard houses outdoors.

Station 5: Cardboard Box Crafts. This was Uncle Will’s idea. He’s a master piñata maker. He helped the kids make barns, birdhouses, and doll houses, which they then painted.

Children engaged in a hands-on craft activity with an instructor.

Station 6: Tie-Dye T-Shirts. This was easier than I thought it would be. I bought this kit which supplied us with everything we needed, except the shirts. My sister, Rachel, was the tie-dye queen!

Young boy painting with gloves in a garden.

Love Gordy’s concentration tongue.

Child on a ladder holding a disco ball outdoors.

While we helped the kids through the stations, Doug began setting up the dance floor. Usually we have a family talent night, but Doug thought a Disco Dance Party might be a fun change. And it was!

A disco ball hanging outdoors with colorful string lights in the background.

The disco ball? The Christmas lights? All his idea. He and Lance had to scale the roof, circle rope around the chimney and over to the swing set, then back again to the balcony to hang the disco ball. It required some serious engineering.

Two women carrying plates at an outdoor gathering in the evening.

After dinner, we played a few games. Like hula-hooping, oreo-eating, and carrying the ping pong ball on a paper plate. Rachel, our resident waitress, put most of us to shame.

Children dancing under colorful lights at an outdoor nighttime party.

Then we broke out the tunes and the kids started dancing. Soon the adults joined in. We were groovin’ pretty mildly, until this happened.

A person dancing energetically under a disco ball at night.

Sarah busted out of the downstairs sliding door in her blue polyester suit, strutting her John Travolta moves like nobody’s business.

Woman dancing energetically in a light blue suit at an indoor event.

I could not stop laughing. No one knew she’d been planning to cameo in her tight, baby blue pants.

It was Sarah that got the real fun started. Everyone followed her lead and before we knew it, the whole family was gettin’ down, inhibitions tossed to the wind.

There’s nothing like family. Where else can you get your groove on, knowing no one will care one bit how you dance, what you look like, or how sweaty you get?

I have a couple videos for you. Here’s Sarah in all her disco glory, my cute Mom mimicking her moves, and my Dad shakin’ it with his famous twist.

Children playing and dancing at a festive nighttime gathering.

The kids didn’t stop the whole night. And neither did the sistas.

Two women smiling happily against a dark background.

In fact, the later it got, the crazier we got. We pulled out the Electric Slide, the Roger Rabbit and Running Man. (Raise your hand if you know what I’m talking about.)

I haven’t danced like this in such a long time. Haven’t let go like this in… forever!

Three friends dancing and having fun together at night.

I was laughing so hard my sides hurt.

More moves. Mostly kiddos.

Three smiling girls posing closely together indoors.

I love how “into their own world” the kids were. Dance like nobody’s watching, right? And see how sweaty Sami is? That girl won the award for most continuous creative dance.

After 10:00 the kids slowed down but the sisters kept rockin’. I don’t know what got into us.

A smiling girl holding a colorful plate with heart shapes.

Eliza and Lizzie made these signs to cheer us on. Ha!

So we kept on jammin’. And jammin’. Until it was late enough I got worried the neighbors might call and ask us to turn off the music.

Group of women joyfully dancing and jumping outdoors at night.

The next morning, I felt like I’d been hit by a train. We all did. My hips were sore and my head felt like a thick brick. We were one bleary-eyed, quiet group for breakfast. When I looked at my sister Deb, I said, “I feel hammered. And we don’t even drink! Can you imagine if we did??”

That night goes down in Keddington history as one of the best. For sure.

Two people enjoying a zipline over lush greenery.

Day 2 was spent in Park City.

My parents did the zip line. (My Dad was afraid he wouldn’t fit, but lookee there!) Such good sports.

A man and a child enjoying a roller coaster ride outdoors.

Doug and Spencer

The Alpine Coaster was a favorite. Hands-down.

A joyful woman and child ride a roller coaster together.

Gordon was my coaster buddy
Gordon laughed the entire way. We ate dinner in Park City, then came home for a movie and popcorn.
Group of smiling children in colorful tie-dye shirts outdoors.

Day 3 we took family photos, had a family discussion, a family history lesson/teaching moment from my parents, and handed out silly awards.

Six children wearing colorful tie-dye shirts outdoors.

These two thought it was hilarious to stick their fingers up their nose. Boys!

Group of children wearing colorful tie-dye shirts posing happily outdoors.

And we closed the reunion with some crazy outtakes.

I adore all these cousins. Love my family.

While I was totally pooped by the end of this madness, I knew we’d made some great memories. (Disco Night was at the top of the list!) I’m so glad my kids have this wonderful group of people they can call home.

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Five children in four years, including two sets of twins, brought new meaning to Mary Oliver's earnest question. Our little people aren't so little anymore, but life is still wild, still precious. And this is my meager attempt to hold on, make it last. I love Doug, running, hiking in the mountains, oatmeal chocolate chip cookies, the edge of an ocean, and connecting with you here. So happy to have you along.

8 Comments

  1. Mary

    August 30, 2013

    You guys sure know how to have fun!

  2. Jill

    August 30, 2013

    Brandon just said speaking of your Dad, "He's a good dancer…for a Grandpa" ha ha ha! Looks like a great time!

  3. catharvy

    August 30, 2013

    Mary – we should recreate this for the Keddington fam at large! 😉

    Jill – Lol! Brandon would know. He's a dance authority! 🙂 Do you think the Arvy clan would go for this? Your kids would be fun to jam with!

  4. leslie

    August 30, 2013

    Thanks for sharing all the awesomeness! I totally want to come to the next disco night. What wonderful memories for all of you.

  5. Alissa and Brandon Owen Family

    August 31, 2013

    I think you are the most amazing writer and mother! You truly have an incredible gift! Thank you for all your inspiration and all you do for us moms! I am close friends with Gretchen Gough and Emily Brooks (who I think are also your friends.) Also, one of my dear friends is building a house in your ward (next to the Caines, across from the Riches) and I am so excited for her because she will have so many great neighbors, like you! (We are friends of Jenni and Matt Cannon, too.) Anyways, my friend Brodi Ashton (lots of connections, forgive me for spouting them off) speaks so highly of you and what a talented writer you are. I have been following you for a while and finally just had to send you a BIG thank you for sharing your life and talent with us. Love, Alissa (formerly Redd) Owen

  6. Deb

    September 2, 2013

    That was fun to relive those few days! We sure had a blast! You guys did such a great job! xo

  7. catharvy

    September 6, 2013

    Leslie – let's do another disco night! With all Keddingtons! 🙂

    Alissa – Holy Moly – we have a lot of friends in common! We must meet at some point! I mentioned your comment to Jen Cannon, who had all wonderful things to say about you. I love all those people you mentioned – Brodi, Emily, Gretchen et. al… goodness. I hope our paths cross soon. Thank you for your kind, kind words. And for reading. Comments like this make me feel like it's worth writing and keeping on. Bless you.

    Deb – was I nice enough? I didn't post the worst/craziest of our dance pics. 😉 xoxo

  8. Sarah holman

    September 9, 2013

    Oh my gosh…so embarrassing and yet and I laughed out loud for a while and plan to post a link from my blog. 🙂
    Thanks for posting these pictures and video. You captured the essence of our family reunion. "crazy fun"
    Thanks for all the efforts!

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